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on Friday, March 21st, Arron Chambers said
A Prayer for You:
Lord, I thank you for Doug--for the way he lived his life and for the way he loved his family.
Please protect, strengthen, and guide the Prouty family as they walk through this difficult valley.
Give them peace and the joy of knowing that Doug is finally healed.
Amen
on Tuesday, March 18th, Kelly Owens said
To this incredible family, all of you, you've lost a brilliant, wonderful creature of God. His physical presence will be hugely mourned for. His spirit, blessedly, will be carried on by all those who he shared his incredible journey with and by all those who he taught how to live ... a great teacher of life! Wow!
on Monday, March 17th, The Bowman Family said
Our deepest condolences to the Proudy family. We were shocked by the news of Doug's passing. We have such warm memories of Doug, Yourself, Nick and Alex from our Kid Time days and beyond. My mom still talks about the party at your house for the Kid Time kids. It does not seem possible that Doug is no longer a part of this world. He was such a great guy and always made us feel so welcome. I don't think there are words to express the special gift he gave to those that knew him. We love you all and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
on Monday, March 17th, Mitch Barnes said
I am very sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I went to PHE and PHHS with Doug. I never knew anyone that didn't like Doug or ever had a bad thing to say about him. I don't ever remember him without a big smile on his face. I learned about his passing from Rod VB and my prayers are with his family, but I'm confident that he is in Heaven. I won't forget him. Mitch Barnes
on Saturday, March 15th, Heller (Waidtlow) Stanton said
He was "Coach" to me. For a number of years as a young girl he was a very important and influencial part. As a swim coach at Bonnie Brae and then at Ygnacio Valley he coached me more that simply swimming. Later, when I became a teacher, he again became "Coach". My deepest sympathies are with his family--I'm very sorry he has left you. I'll miss you Coach---Wheels
on Saturday, March 15th, Pat & Evvie Herleman said
We're so sorry to learn about Rock's passing. He was truely an inspirational person! We'll miss seeing him at camp. Our deepest condolences to the Prouty family.
on Saturday, March 15th, Catherine Hoyer said
We are all so sorry to hear the news of Doug's Passing What a inspiration he was to all of us. My God Bless You all
Catherine
on Friday, March 14th, James and Yolanda Seay said
Jeanette,
We are shocked to hear the news of Doug's passing. He is a fighter and just reading his comments about planning for his trip to Palm Springs is so inspiring and insightful of a man on a mission to live life as best he could. I remember the first time I met him and he introduced himself as Doug, but you called him Rock. That was so cool!! We are praying for you and your family and I know that Rock is still looking over you and his family and friends.
May God bless you all.
on Friday, March 14th, Vanessa (V) Sherrer said
I just heard about Doug. I'm so sorry. I wish I had known earlier. He was my softball coach in Vienna, Austria. He inspired me in so many ways and helped to develop such a great team. He was always very involved in practices and always had a smile on his face. For me, personally, he helped me in reaching my potential. I remember him fondly and over the years have thought about him from time to time. I am so glad that he decided to blog, as I just found it and feel like I could be a part of his life. Reading his entries makes me realize just how much more amazing he was than I thought I knew. BIG HUGS to your family.
on Friday, March 14th, Rod said
I've known Doug since we were just little guys running around at PHE. As we got older he was too smart to hang around me a lot. We spent lots of time running together in high school and we stayed in touch up until late last year. Doug I know was a great father, husband, brother, son friend and person in general it always brightened my day when he would come by. I will miss him, but never forget his smile and his unique way of being a great guy. God Bless Doug and his family.
on Friday, March 14th, Luis Alkon said
I am so sorry for you and your kids. He was truly a great man and loved by everyone. The feeling you have can only be felt by yourself and I wish there was something that can be done to help. At this time of need I wish you all the peace that can be expected at this juncture in your life. Know that all my prayers and thoughts go with you at your time of sorrow.
God bless you doug I'll miss you!
Luis Alkon
on Friday, March 14th, Valentina Timms said
Allan and I send our deepest condolences to Jeannette, Nick and Alex along with the Entire Prouty family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. We will miss you Rock and we will forever feel blessed to have known Doug "Rock" Prouty. Feel the HUGS we give all of you!
on Friday, March 14th, Ric Barline said
My condolences to the Prouty family. I was privileged to have known and worked with Doug. His struggle is over, and ours continue. He will live on in our hearts and minds.
on Friday, March 14th, Jul.ie Buchanan said
Dearest Jeannette, Nick and Alex,
My love, thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. When we saw you and Rock a few weeks ago at the movies, I was amazed at the beautiful sparkle in Rock's eyes! Heaven is being blessed by his presence.
God's blessings to you.
Our love, Julie & Eleazar
on Friday, March 14th, Colleen said
I am Rock/Doug’s Sister in Law, married to his brother Chris (little bro). It is apparent you all know how special Rock is, by reading the blog we can see how many lives he touched even beyond what we knew. Having lost my only biological brother suddenly at 39, I have always felt very blessed to have married into this loving and special family. We will always have so many fun and wonderful memories of Rock. Rock has given us all such incredible gifts. Our gift from him is so bitter sweet. Had it not been for Rocks’ diagnosis two years ago, Chris’ colon cancer would not have been caught at such an early stage and with such a good prognosis. We Love you Bro and are eternally grateful to you for giving my soul mate the gift of life. You are forever in our hearts. Our family will remain incomplete until we all see you again!
on Friday, March 14th, little bro said
Durring the last couple of days if have been having flashbacks of yesteryears. Its like my whole life has flashed in front of my mind. Remembering all that my brother was to me. I had been there through the good and the bad. Not only brother but roomate, bandmate, travelmate, schoolmate, partymate, soulmate. Music was our biggest connection. Our band the RELATIVES (CDs available on request) kept us close. Although at the end he was not able to play many songs because of the pain in his hands. With cousin Jim we would still make some noise. I will miss that the most. Its great to hear from everybody who will miss him eventhough I have never met most of you. I find that you have my brother figured out. He was a great friend indeed. WE WILL MISS YOU BRO. I LOVE YOU
on Friday, March 14th, Candy Bandong said
I was one of the CUE attendees who sat through Mr. Prouty's presentation. I even have him on my video that I will promptly make a clip for you to view.
My colleagues and I were very impressed that he would come all the way to Palm Springs in spite of his illness. He is an inspiration and wonderful human being. We grieve his passing.
on Friday, March 14th, Doreen said
It was my profound pleasure and honor to work with such a wonderful man. They are few and far between that measure up to Doug. My deepest sympathies for you and your family. He is greatly missed. Our only comfort is that his suffering is now over and he is heaven looking out for all of us.
on Friday, March 14th, Mischa said
We had a small gathering at our house last night with some friends here in the Santa Cruz area who have known Doug through Tim and I over the years. We looked at pictures and listened to a mix of "Prouty" music Dan Weiser made, and our friend Samo taught us a James Taylor song which we quickly learned and sang with our hearts...it's called "My Traveling Star."
"Watch my back and light my way
My traveling star, my traveling star
Watch over all those born St. Christopher's Day
Old road dog, young runaway
They hunger for home but they cannot stay
They wait by the door
They stand and they stare
They're already out there
They're already out there
Never mind the wind
Never mind the rain
Never mind the road leading home again
Never asking why
Never knowing when
Every now and then
There he goes again."
One can never have too many friends...Doug was a fine example of that...and I am sure thankful for all of mine right now...just as I continue to be deeply grateful that Doug was my friend...and all of yours...and that we will remember him always... and that his spirit lives on...through his family and friends.
Here's to loving Doug and loving each other!!!!
on Friday, March 14th, Big brother said
Rock, I'm sure St. Peter has swung wide the gates. With any luck the next time I see you I'll be standing there to. However for me I fear the hinges will be a little rusty. While you always looked out for me before, maybe you could start a little lobbying on my behalf. I love you brother and will count the days until we're together again.
on Friday, March 14th, Mike Herbst said
There is a restaurtant here in Brussels where Doug Jeannette Nick and I ate dinner when Doug visited me. I am going to go to that restaurtant this weekend and remember. Everytime I want to remember Doug and our times together, I will go here and remember his smile, laugh, his words of encouragement and his spirit and what he gave to me in my life.
From a song that I like these words are for you Rock:
You're in the arms of an Angel; may you find some comfort here.
Sing it forever tech man, sing it for all of us. Thank you for all you gave to me, you will be missed in my home.
Your friend,
Mike
on Thursday, March 13th, Tami said
My heart goes out to all of Doug's family and friends! I met Doug a few years ago when he & my mom were recieving chemotherapy treatment in walnut creek. I will forever remember Doug as friendly, strong & very courageous!
on Thursday, March 13th, cuz'n Ken said
You were always so kind and thoughtful, as kids growing up you were Rock and you really are "The Rock"! You have persevered the last few years with your illness and you have touched so many of us through your BLOG with your research on so many subjects, I am so glad to have been a part of your life, I know Grandma Grace, Dad and family will take care of you - You will always be in my heart.
on Thursday, March 13th, pamela chu said
Dear Jeanette and family,
I am so sorry! My deepest condolences. Doug was a very special man, and he is in a very special place now. will miss him dearly, and will remember him always. my prayers and thoughts are with you..
on Thursday, March 13th, Paul Magnaghi said
My heart aches at the news of this. I have been in shock since I heard this. Doug was an inspiration for me in many ways; as a teacher, as a warrior, as a musician. I dpn't know if I have ever known someone that battled every day and made me rejoice in my own life. For that I am grateful. Jeannette, you are the rock now as you always have been. My family prays for you and your family and we will always have a special place in our hearts for you all. I know Doug is not gone, he had way too much of a lasting impression to ever leave.
on Thursday, March 13th, Peter Vogel said
My friend is gone, so very sad for me, and for Jeanette, Nick and Alex, but what a fine addition he makes now, a guitar player and singer in the Angel Band.
His life and dying, his courage in both, and his teaching, his constant encouragement and assistance that he gave so abundantly and joyfully. Doug and his life added so much to all of us through his kindness and generosity. He has risen, a memory of excellence I will always have. Peace.
on Thursday, March 13th, Tracy Wedemyer Levie said
Dear Jeanette, Nick and Alex.
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a very strong and brave man who certainly put up the best fight possible. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow. I know there are no words that can be said to heal your pain. What a blessing that you and Nick were by his side and I am so thankful that he passed peacefully. You guys were very fortunate to have had such awonderful husband and father and he also was very fortunate to have had such a loving wife ,son, and daughter. He truly cherished you all. Thank you for everything you have done for him and may peace be with you all.
Tracy
on Thursday, March 13th, karly said
i am so sorry we lost gift and a one of a kind person.its hard on everyone now and it hasn't quite hit me yet but it will soon.i hope you nick and alex are alright and uncle rock is in a better place now.
love you karly
on Thursday, March 13th, Jim Vermeys said
To Jeannette, Nick and Alex: My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy to all of you. You are heroes. Rock was my hero. His inspiration to live life at its fullest, to question, to dare, to risk, and to learn.....He was the teacher of all teachers. I learned so much from his blog. What a wealth of knowledge he had and chose to share with all of us.
Right now I suspect he is singing. He brought music to me and my friends and embraced song like no other musician.
Jeannette, you are the Rock. I'm so proud of you, and proud to know you. Thank you for keeping Rock in your heart now and forever. Thank you for allowing us to share our feelings and appreciation for what Rock left behind. I hope I can give you a hug soon!
Jim
on Thursday, March 13th, Ron Herleman said
Jeanette, Nick, and Alex: I have always enjoyed seeing all of you when we were able to get other. I hoped that it would always go on with Rock. I am certainly sorry that did not occur, and give my deepest condolences. I have come to deeply appreciate Rock's talent, dedication and industry. All of us will miss him greatly.
on Thursday, March 13th, Anne B. said
Doug's final trip to Palm Springs was a magnaminous gift of self and true to how he lived his life. To the end, family and friends were what mattered most to him. Even as he faced the greatest challenges of his life, Doug was ultimately the great teacher and he has inspired us all. We were all privileged to have taken this journey with him. To the Prouty Family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
on Thursday, March 13th, Janie, Michael & Pilar said
We cannot express our feelings of sorrow to hear of Doug's passing. We all knew him as a great man, husband and father, and all of us are better for having had the opportunity to know him. We will always remember his great personality, easy-going manner, boundless enthusiasm, and dedication to his family. The world has lost one of its great children. To the entire Prouty family, our deepest condolences.
on Thursday, March 13th, Helen Teague said
We are all better for knowing Doug and receiving his abundant kindness and energy. We were fortunate to be able to watch in awe and cheer for him as he lived with courage and power. Jeanette, thank you for sharing him with those of us on the CC conference circuit.
on Thursday, March 13th, Susan said
I'm so glad I had an opportunity to visit briefly with Doug last week at CUE. He will definitely be missed.
on Thursday, March 13th, Ted Altenberg said
My words seem inadequate to express the sorrow I feel, or the ache in my heart for you and your kids, Jeanette. Prayers, tears and candlelight come your way from Santa Cruz.
on Thursday, March 13th, Janet DuBois-Mars said
I am so very saddened. My thoughts are with you all. He was a very specdial person who is alive and well in our hearts.
on Thursday, March 13th, Leslie Fisher said
Jeanette, it will be a pleasure to share with you in the future the story of the line that gave The Rock a lasting chuckle.
My thoughts will continue to be with you during this time. What a lucky family to have Doug as its cornerstone.
on Thursday, March 13th, Yolanda Bennett said
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jeanette, Nick and Alex. I never had the chance to meet Doug, but had heard good things about him.
on Thursday, March 13th, Mona Epstein said
I am deeply saddened to learn of Doug's passing. I came to know you and Doug as a parents- during an extremely challenging period with Alex. Always,Doug "beamed" when looking at Alex, a devoted parent, struggling to cope.
I wish I had some comfort to offer; I wish you the strength to raise your children and keep Doug's memory alive.
on Thursday, March 13th, Debra G said
Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives.
--A. Sachs
Doug knew how to REALY live his life. Even though I told him many times, I don’t really think he realized that he taught me how to start living my life. He showed me to worry a lot less and live a lot more. I am thankful for opportunity for having Doug in my life, and for calling him my friend.
Jeanette, Nick, Alex and the Prouty Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. .
on Thursday, March 13th, Millie and Jim said
Our thoughts are with you. He was a wonderful husband, dad, son, and nephew. We'll always keep Rocky in our thoughts.
on Thursday, March 13th, Gloria Pearce said
My condolences to Doug's family. It was such a pleasure to meet Doug and to work with him on the conference ciruit for those many years. Thanks for the smiles, laughs, and brillian insights!! We are all better for knowing you, Doug.
on Thursday, March 13th, Corey said
I will never forget the "jams" we had at your parents house. The best jams and parties. We rocked, just like your name. Be at peace.
on Thursday, March 13th, Mia said
My thoughts are with all of you. I'm so glad that you and Nick were with him. Even death can't seperate the love you have with him. He will always be with you in your heart.
Jacob was remembering last night how Rock showed him his guitars at Rock's birthday party. Not much else is as cool to an 11 year old!
Much love.
on Thursday, March 13th, Doni DeBolt said
I always thought Doug would be with us. I'm not ready to embrace that he has left us, but by the way he lived his life, braved his illness with such a remarkable attitude, and loved his family, I have to give him the biggest "THANK YOU".
What stands out in my mind about Doug is how much he loved his family, and his daughter, Alexandra. He never lost his love, hope or faith for Alex, and the way he spoke of his Jeanette and Nick, the way he could make all of us laugh, the way he lived his life, I'd have to say that he is one of the few people that I know who I could say is "The Real Deal". I take comfort in knowing that he is with our Lord, and also know that He used Doug in our lives as an inspiration of what we can do with our lives.
My heart and prayers are with everyone who knew and loved Doug, all of our lives are better because we knew him.
God Bless you Doug,
Doni
on Thursday, March 13th, Easton said
Hey Aunt Jeanette,
Mom called dad this morning to have him pull Susan and me out of class to let us know what happened. Susan is doing alright but it is me that Im worried about. I do know he is in good hands now but its tough for me to pull together the fact that I have now lost a grandpa and a very close uncle to cancer in less than a year. Susan and I miss him very much and will be praying for everyone.
Love,
Easton
on Thursday, March 13th, Margaret, Rich, Brian and Carter said
Jeanette, Nick and Alex,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and the rest of your family.
God speed to Rock.
There are a couple lines of a song that I think of when someone we love moves on from here...someone else is welcoming them on the other side:
When I get where I'm going, on the far side of the sky.
The first thing I'm gonna do is spread my wings and fly.
When I get where I'm going, there'll be only happy tears.
When I get where I'm going and I see my Maker's face, I'll stand forever in the light of his amazing grace.
When I get where I'm going there'll be only happy tears. Halleluja!
Rock's already there!
on Thursday, March 13th, Raya Hayes said
Doug is one of a kind. is spirit will go on for ever. I feel fortunate to have learned from him. Your family is amazing and my thoughts will always be with you! Hugs and love to you all.
on Thursday, March 13th, Jay (Dad) said
Dearest Rock,
Go now with no more pain or fear. Thank you for taking us on a fantastic journey. Your mother and I will love you forever!
on Thursday, March 13th, Steve Brown said
I never met Rock but he's had a significant impact on my life through you. You have been an amazing inspiration to me and I am fortunate to call you friend.
I was just thinking of you yesterday, how it had been awhile since we had chatted... how next week would be a good time to get together since I was in town.
Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.
--Psalm 116:15
on Thursday, March 13th, Gerald McMullin said
My thoughts go out to the Prouty family. I was always excited and inspired whenever I got to work and collaborate with Doug. I was glad to spend some time with him in Palm Springs. I will miss him.
on Thursday, March 13th, Bonnie Marks said
The light in Doug's eyes will continue to shine in the hearts of all of us that he touched.
on Thursday, March 13th, Stephanie said
For some reason I always thought that he would make it. I am deeply sorry for your loss, I always thought good things of him, he was such a wonderful person. Ash and I will really miss you Uncle Rock. I hope that God will ease your pain, in letting you know that Rock is at Peace now.
on Thursday, March 13th, Helen said
Doug's spirit will live on in all of us that he has touched. I'm thankful for the time I was able to share with him.
on Thursday, March 13th, Kathy said
I'm so sorry to hear about Rock's passing. He was an amazing man, wonderful husband, father and friend to everyone. He will be missed and thought of fondly by all of us often. Jeanette, you and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers and I am there for you always and anytime. Love you all. Kathy
on Thursday, March 13th, Kris Heydon said
Doug gave so joyfully in life. His presence will be sorely missed. My heart goes out to his family.
on Thursday, March 13th, Jim Herleman said
Jeanette: After years where both our families lived in other parts of the country/world I can not tell you how much I enjoyed visiting with Rock at the river; cousins catching up on a lifetime. My heart goes out to you and your family-it seems we hold their hands for a while-but their hearts forever. God bless.
on Thursday, March 13th, Jonathan & Heather Dignes said
My condolences to the Prouty family. I feel privileged to have known Doug and his family. He was a positive example for us all.
on Thursday, March 13th, Linda Uhrenholt said
Doug is now asking for a laptop with wi-fi from St Peter......no, he went to the Big Man himself and is now letting up technology presentations. He will be missed, Doug had a HUGE impact on who I am today. You all are in Mark and my prayers.
Linda/Mark
on Thursday, March 13th, Joe Cusack said
Jeanette, I am so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you. I look forward to catching up sometime in the future. Best - joe
on Thursday, March 13th, George said
Our condolences to the Prouty family. His knowlege that he has given us during this fight will be remembered forever. Truly an inspiration for all of us. Our thoughts are with you.
on Thursday, March 13th, Chris Tzortzis said
I was so sorry to hear about "Rock"'s passing. I trust and know that he is in a better place, keeping an eye on all of us.
You are an unbelievable family, with strength, humor and a zest for life that is rarely seen.
In this time of need, please draw on all of us, and let us give you that, and whatever else we can, back to you.
My family is here for you.
on Thursday, March 13th, Nancy said
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know that Doug is now up there in God's home. He is free of sickness and running with his wings now.
on Thursday, March 13th, Renee said
Doug was an inspiration to me and everyone that knew him. My prayers are with you and your family.
on Thursday, March 13th, Kurt said
Strength personified...thank you for your gifts to us.
on Thursday, March 13th, scott said
The education community has lost a strong, powerful voice that always kept us thinking about the good of the child over the good of school. I will miss Doug, I will remember Doug.
My prayers to you Jeannette and family as you walk through the hurt. May God grant you an unusual strength and peace.
on Thursday, March 13th, Monica Krieger said
Doug was my best buddy since 1998 when we met at the annual CCCOE function... I am so sorry for you Jeannette and the kids, I met Alex and Doug many times at Mauzy... Your husband was one wonderful person, and he will be truly missed! My thoughts and prayers go with you! Monica
on Thursday, March 13th, Mischa said
Jeanette and Nick,
I am so glad you were both there. I love you both and do not know what else there is to say right now. We will see you soon and perhaps say some of it then. I hope we all have many years of being connected ahead of us. Love to all of the family as well.
on Thursday, March 13th, Cris said
Our deepest condolences to you, Jeannette, and to Nick and Alex.
Rock will be loved and missed always. Please know that you all are in our prayers.
on Thursday, March 13th, Meg Diehl said
My heart and prayers go out to the Prouty Family. I know that a strong faith in God will help you through this very tough time. Doug is not gone forever, he has left this life for another and will be there for you when you go to meet him. He is always in the hearts of those he loved and who loved him. I didn't know Doug real well, but in the day he was very helpful to me.
on Thursday, March 13th, Adrienne said
What an amazing person and such a great loss for us all. Doug's blog has brought perspective to many of us when we were caught up in the mundane. Thank you.
My love goes out to the Prouty family. So sorry for your loss.
on Thursday, March 13th, Kim Powell said
I am truly sorry to hear that Rock lost his fight last night. It definitely was a good fight but we all know he is in good hands. To all the Prouty family...Please accept my condolences. He touched so many lives and I am sure he would want everyone to smile big when we think of him. He definitely would want his family and friends to CELEBRATE his life.
on Thursday, March 13th, Cindy said
My deepest condolences to the Prouty family. Doug was so well-loved and such an amazing human being. I feel privileged to have known him. He will be soooo missed. Again, my deepest condolences.
on Thursday, March 13th, Augie said
Doug ran with stars in his eyes...He now flies with angels on his wings.
God bless you Doug
We will all miss you
on Thursday, March 13th, Marcia said
God bless you all.
on Thursday, March 13th, Kevin said
I am so sorry. He put up a good fight and I know he's in God's loving arms. Probably teaching him about "media rich lesson plans!" You are all in my heart and prayers.
