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12/24/2006: "Christmas Thanks"

As expected, this is an emotional Christmas for the family this year. Last year, I had just finished my first round of chemo and had not heard that it had spread. We were celebrating with the thoughts that we were done with cancer and I could get my life back on track- something to be Merry about.

This year, I seemed to be thinking about the past and present as opposed to the future. Reminiscing is one of my favorite activities. What I am today is a sum of the past experiences and relationships. This last trip to Europe brought back such a flood of great memories that it was sometimes hard to stay in the present. While there, I got a comment on this blog from Kelly. I coached her in recreational swimming when she was 8, close to 30 years ago. As a teacher or a coach, you always remember a select few. Those are the people, young or old, who cause you to become the student. I am amazed by the impact we have on each other. Know it or not, any moment, any word, can have and incredible effect on anyone.

I hope we all take a chance to stop this Christmas and appreciate the gifts we have, especially the people who touch us. Sometimes we move so fast that those critical moments when we “connect” are missed. I’ll take this one to thank all of you who read this, for moving me forward and encouraging me to share. And naturally, my family, but especially Jeanette, for being there when I know this year has been the toughest challenge in her life.

Thank you everyone and Merry Christmas

Replies: 3 Comments

on Sunday, December 24th, Nicki said

Thank you, Doug, for allowing all of us to be there with you and for you. You have inspired many of us in different ways. Your insights, musings, understandings, and reminders to stay connected have not fallen on deaf ears. You have taken us all on a powerful journey as we live through your experiences. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas filled with love and friendship.

on Sunday, December 24th, Colin said

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!! =) ya

on Sunday, December 24th, tim, mischa, colin and emily said

we are thinking of you all and appreciate the reminder to "connect" and be present. we also are looking forward to connecting with you. thanks for being who you are..awesome!! Merry Christmas!!